EVERY TIME YOU FUCKING YELL I HAVE TO RE-RECORD IT

femmecriticale:

It sounds like you’ve been in some shitty sex positive spaces. Some of the great sex positive thinkers do not watch porn because it makes them uncomfortable.

I feel like this is a crass generalization of sex positivity. It relies on a lot of stereotypes, even those those…

this is why “but there are women who make porn bc they want to” doesn’t work

Femmewhatever you’re being hella gross and I hope you feel really bad for telling a group of rape survivors who feel alienated by your bullshit politics that they’re being unfair meanieheads for daring to not agree with your party line.

thenunja:

friendlyangryfeminist:

How about the fact that it was creepy sex positive adult feminists who when I was a teenager confused about why I couldn’t have orgasms told me to watch porn in order to fix that.

Adults telling teenagers to watch porn is creepy! Even if that porn is…

I don’t know why I’ve never mentioned this before, probably because I try to block it out but literally this is what a therapist at my community college suggested to help me get over RTS, tw for like, I don’t even know, rape I guess

I was raped by a gynecologist when I was 15 and she basically manipulated me into giving her explicit details and then asked if I’d like to use one of the exam rooms to reenact it with my boyfriend because it would put me in control of the situation. I didn’t file a complaint but I was involved in my schools feminist club and I brought it up as a hypothetical, I thinki said I had read something about it to see what the other members thought and they said it was a really good idea, rape fantasies are sooooo healing because you get to relive it but know you asked for it so youre in charge I guess.